R-E-S-P-E-C-T.
Find out what it means to me.
To me? It
means honoring someone. And it’s something that is earned.
Too often, people
today demand respect. But if you have to demand respect, I have to wonder if
you really deserve it.
Respect is a
commodity that increases the more it is given away. It’s a funny thing that
way. By respecting others, you are earning respect for yourself.
Respect is
something that also takes time. I could demand that you respect me the moment
we meet. But even if you say you do, do you really? No. Respect is like a
reputation. It takes time to build up. It takes work. It takes consistency. It
takes patience.
So if you
want people to respect you, start first by asking yourself, “What am I doing to
earn respect? Am I giving respect
away to others? Am I being patient in wanting to be respected?”
R-E-S-P-E-C-T.
You found out what it means to me. What does it mean to you?
Very good point, and well said.
ReplyDeleteShawn at Reading Practice